Having a person you love be admitted to nursing home care is often said to be 'the hardest thing' ever done. Family members usually feel guilty, protective, and really heart broken. A lot of this is related to the bad press aged care gets. Sometimes it is because the family feels staff do not include them and all of their knowledge in care. If you fit in this boat feel free to drop me an email or leave a note in my guest book. I can probably give some useful advice and/or put you in touch with those who can assist.